The first day of Mexican Au Pair Ana in Chinese family,her Chinese mother prepared warm welcome for her with flowers. From the first moment they feel sympathy for each other. First day in a new family use to be very friendly. However, many host families and Au pairs get nervous and a million thoughts and questions go through their minds : “Should I give them a hug – or a handshake?”, “Should I kiss them on 1 cheek – or 2?”,“What should I say and what can we talk about ?” Each side is courageous, eager and excited in their own way and everyone shows it differently. There is no right way or wrong way! For the family the most important is Au pair to feel comfortable, nice and relaxed.